Celibacy seems to be a word, thats more like a taboo. For some strange reason, whenever someone mentions that they are celibate. People tend to think that there is something wrong with that person.
Because God forbid, you keep your legs closed, your mouth or your stuff in your pants. Somethings gotta be wrong with you because why aren’t you fucking, like everyone else… Sex is great right?? The icing on the cake??
Well I beg to differ…Trust me it is not all that…especially when it comes to men, because all they do is enter a woman and they can cum easily, women can’t.
Society seems to think that just because we are sexual beings that everybody on the freaking planet is fucking like rabbits. That is so far from the truth, it’s not even funny.
I for one… am not afraid to admit that I am celibate and proud for a lot of reasons. But really it’s no ones business, how long I’ve been celibate and what I am not doing. If I choose to share why I am not, spreading my legs to any ol’ man, thats my choice.
People think based off of the way I look, that there is no way I can’t be having sex or not have a man. My life doesn’t revolve around a relationship status. To most people, sex is important. It’s not for me because thats not the only thing I’m concerned with.
My celibacy is a turn off to some men. Others will show some respect to a degree, but they figure if I’m not having actual sex , am I open to other things and the answer is a FLAT OUT NO!!!!
Thats one reason why I’m celibate and abstaining from all types of sexual contact because of these very same men, who keep trying to get a physical need met. Which I think is very disrespectful because I don’t know where the hell your dick has been and if you have an STD.
Men seem to want a clean woman but they are not.
Before I get pissed off, LOL.. let me explain something..
Celibacy can be a great thing, if you are fully cognizant of why you are doing it. It may be for spiritual reasons. Because you want actual LOVE. For some people, they have to have sex, they can’t control their flesh for anything. They’ll even have sex with someone they don’t love or pay for it. A lot of people are sexually repressed and it comes out in all sorts of ways.
Hey I’m not judging, we all get horny, LOL…but celibacy can be a great way to heal your spirit, body and mind after a break up. Some people bring their baggage into a new relationship because they have not healed.
A lot of people don’t know or understand soul ties. They just figure, I want that man or woman. I’m horny, lets fuck. There is an energy being exchange and a spiritual side to having sexual relations. When a man enters a woman and when a woman allows it.
Their bodies are exchanging energies and that can be a good thing, if you are into tantric sex and if your spirit is clean, and you know yourself and have done the work, to make sure that you don’t have any emotional baggage, to enter into another persons spirit.
It can also be a bad thing, if you have sex with someone whose not on the same wavelength as you are and if your chakras are not balanced.
Energy is everywhere, it’s in everything that we do, you can call it a vibe, a hunch or whatever, as much as we try to ignore it, but it’s there. We pick up on so many sublte energies in everyday life. When something doesn’t feel right, it’s the energy we pick up. This happens during sex.
Celibacy can help us on so many levels. Some people choose to ignore the emotional side of sex, because they just want to get off. It takes a lot to share yourself with another human spirit. When you are evolved and know yourself and you want more out of the sexual exchange of having someone in your life.
You don’t look at someone as just something you want to screw and be done with. That shows that you are highly evolve. There are always consequences whether they are good or bad when you have sexual relations. Celibacy can help you avoid that.
A person can be celibate for so many reasons. Celibacy, gives you time to work on yourself and to have a clear mind. You are actually more focused. You see things clearly. Instead of people shunning it. They should be applauding someone who chooses to be celibate because it shows respect for their body, soul and mind.
It really isn’t that hard to abstain from sex. It’s all in the mind. If you can’t control the urge to have sex, masturbate, lol. Its safe, theres no emotions involved. No worrying about STDS’s. No awkward moments with telling somebody to leave.
Sex complicates things. Hell, relationships, complicate things. LOL. It’s hard sharing yourself with someone. Somebody always wants more. Some people are not ready to handle a sexual relationship and the emotions that come a long with being intimate with someone.
When you’re celibate it can also help draw you closer to God. Your energy is not cluttered with someone else’s emotions. You are able to hear God Talk to you. Your vision is way more clear.
Celibate people do not need therapy, we are perfectly sane!
But in conclusion people shouldn’t be concerned with what others are doing in bed or not doing. Unless it concerns them. People have a right not to have sex if they don’t want to. If you know someone who practices celibacy, thats someone you want to get to know. You know that if you make that person your life partner or spouse, you don’t have to worry about them cheating on you, because they are not going to have sex just because they are bored. They’ll reach for a vibrator or their hand before they reach for another person, LOL….
Celibacy is to be respected. It’s not for everybody.