We all know someone that every time they start to feel something, they suppress it. They don’t want to acknowledge how they feel in any way.
Well you know what… it’s time to put an end to that BULLSHIT!
You need to stop running. You don’t get to walk to walk away every time you feel something.
No matter how little or intense, acknowledge how you feel, admit it to yourself first.
If you have feelings for someone, acknowledge it. Why every time you start to feel, you start to walk away. You disappear.
Stop being a coward and feel what you are feeling. Stop deflecting your behavior and putting it on someone else just because you do not want to deal.
You don’t get to confuse someone and lead them on, just because you are not sure of what you want.
You don’t get to not acknowledge how someone else feels, when they are asking you a question and they want to know whats in your heart.
Oh but I see, you ignore because that way you don’t have to deal and you get to string things along. Keep doing that to a good a woman, she’s not going to stick around.
But I guess that’s what you want and don’t want. Hell… you don’t even know.
You know you don’t want rejection, you say it’s cool but deep down, you want what you want and want to control the outcome.
When things don’t work out, you say to yourself, “I knew it. I was right all along.” You find fault in everything, every word, every action just to coincide with what you are thinking and feeling.
What? You think you don’t deserve love. You think you don’t need nobody?
Didn’t you love the wrong women? How did that turn out? Oh you stayed, you gave your all.
That pain and hurt and everything they put you through, your spirit became immune to it and you called that love.
You don’t get to use the word love and do the opposite of it. If someone you know loves you and wants to be with you. Don’t push that person away.
Man the fuck up and stop running from the very thing, that you say you want the most.
Stop hiding behind email, text and the phone. Stop ghosting!
You’re not that busy, you’re scared and you’re hiding.
Stop doing shit to other people that you clearly do not want done to yourself.
Stop not listening to your heart. Stop pushing people away and not listening to them.
Have the courage to say what you want and need from the people in your life.
Learn how to recognize love and pain. Don’t confuse the two because love does not hurt nor will it ever.
If you believe in your heart, that you have a shot at it, don’t fuck up a good thing. This goes for both men and women.
If it doesn’t work out, then that love was not meant for you. Stop breaking your own heart and deflecting blame.
Stop being such a narcissist and leading women on, when you clearly don’t have any plans on staying. Sweet nothings, means nothing.
For god sake, stop walking away every time you feel something and those feelings are good.
You’re human, don’t you think you think you deserve love?
Don’t you think you deserve to be happy? The answer should be yes.
Stop thinking every one is out to get you and hurt you.
Stop being an asshole. Stop ruining things before they even start.
You don’t get to play with someone emotions and use the word love and not mean it. When you say you love someone, stand behind your word.
Stop not being a man of your word. Stop being so short, deflective, cold. Aren’t you tired of that?
Stop blaming the other person when you don’t get the love you want. The problem is not them. It’s you. You’re the one who has your guard up. You’re the one who’s inconsistent and silent.
Isn’t time you start to be open to the love you truly desire? Why is it so hard for you to be vulnerable. Thats where your strength lies.
Don’t you want a love that brings out the best in you? Don’t you want loyalty, honesty, respect?
A woman whose a woman of her word, that’s consistent. Trustworthy, that has your back. Thats passionate, protective, thoughtful, kind. A woman who never makes you feel alone.
Well in order for you to have those things, you must be all of that. Don’t ask of what you can not give of yourself and feel entitled.
Lose your ego if you want love.
When you feel, deal…. knowing that love will heal.
But please do yourself a favor, stop walking away every time you feel something.